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Ooooooh your last line is key.

I'm also perplexed by how many reviewers aren't taking into account Aronofsky's oeuvre. Requiem for a Dream: the prostitutes at an office party scene? Unnecessary and exploitative? showing an overhead of Jared Leto in the anatomical position, but with a mangled arm? unnecessary and exploitative? I find Aronofsky movies difficult to watch, but not because they're bad. Because they're unflinching.

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Right, exactly!

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I have not seen The Whale and truthfully it will probably be the first Aronofsky film I don't see. But, your review is incredibly thoughtful, bjective and generous given what you share about your own experience. If I do decide to watch it despite what seems like pretty big shortcomings, I will be considering what you've written and shared in your review.

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Really appreciate you saying so

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I'm glad I went ahead and checked out this review, spoilers aside. Films that depict fatness or overeating in passing to emphasize a character's spiritual malaise or some other theme are a dime a dozen, but when I try to think of films that are explicitly *about* being very overweight, or binge eating, I'm hard pressed to think of any. I guess there's that movie "Fat" from 2013 which I never saw. Definitely not a topic easily romanticized for the screen in the way that, say, alcoholism has been. From your description it sounds like more of a character-driven movie than a topical one, and I wonder if that might have led to pushback from people who wanted more social commentary.

Definitely more motivated to see it now!

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A really good point and I agree with you!

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I haven’t seen it yet but have been hearing things! I really appreciate you sharing your view!

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Let me know your thoughts when you do!

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We're quick to judge. If you don't want to have the disorder, then all you have to do is not eat so much, right? Unwilling to open ourselves up to a different life than the one we familiar with, we make a moral judgment. We're virtuous and they are guilty of the deadly sin of gluttony, and empathy goes out the window.

Think about it. Karen Carpenter spawned a whole anorexia awareness movement. There's no such movement for the severely obese. Instead we have a fat acceptance movement because obesity has become so common.

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I got around to watching the movie on Sunday and it was an emotional watch, I cried a lot. In the binge scenes, I saw myself in Charlie, it felt uncomfortable watching how he harmed himself and knowing I had done the same to myself for many years. I wouldn't describe it as exploitative either.

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